my last blog got a lot of people in an uproar and i really honestly 100% don't get why… it was written out of truth and how i honestly feel that my immediate family just does not fit in with the big family anymore… apparently i should have listed names but i don't think thats necessary. I'm not upset at those that confronted me about it because it gave me a chance to explain things they had issues with what i do have issues with is people taking it out on my mom who had nothing to do with it. "your making my mom upset" last time i checked your mom is my moms mom and if anyone upset her it was me… so point your blame else where!
the only thing i can think that upset people is that it was the god honest truth, and that sucks when people point things out that we may not be proud of … but i said loud and clear i was just as guilty as everyone else so i don't get how there was any fault there. and for those proving me wrong with your this is what goes on now… what part of i have not been there the past 2 years to see that do you all not understand?? i was sharing my experience from the last one i attended…
just because i generalised does not mean that every single sentence was pointed to someone in particular …. so when i say i didn't cards its because i didn't… its not my fault that you chose not send them out… its something thats important to me and i chose to send them out… but there are family members that i KNOW send out cards because i see other family members get some and i don't… thats what i was referring to.
i ended with saying i don't care how jacked up it is i would still rather be there then here… but yet I'm still in the wrong… just proves my point if you ask me.
ho ho ho and a Merry Christmas
Don't let people stigmatize your feelings and belittle you because of something that makes you feel whole, or because of a way you feel. I think our families are a lot alike in that aspect. The fact that they were on the defense proves your point in my book. You have military family now, and we love you! P.S. email me your address? tara.rolfes@gmail.com.
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